But Pegging Will Turn Me Gay

The answer is yes, of course… just kidding!! It's not even a question you need to ask. But we can understand why you might be confused...

There is a big prejudice and some confusion between sexual preferences and relational preferences. Even if you typically like women, you can still enjoy anal play. And if you haven't already experimented with anal play, boy you are in for an exciting new world of pleasure!

How many times has a partner thought about playing with your anus? Many more times than we imagine; maybe even the same number of times we think about playing with theirs.

But I think the first step is important, to separate between our sexual preferences, the parts of the body we like to have stimulated, and our relational preferences, the gender of people with whom we want to have those sexual preferences satisfied.

I like kissing, I like touching tongues with my tongue, I like genital stimulation, I like anal stimulation, with whom? Typically women. I don't understand why this prejudice still exists.

M challenged me, or I challenged her, I don't even know anymore — I just know her eyes sparkled when the idea came up. The technical name is pegging. Pegging is a sexual practice where a person penetrates their partner anally using a strap-on dildo. Typically, it involves a woman penetrating a man, but it can occur between any genders.

We decided on a double dildo that could be used for pegging for both of us as I like the sharing of pleasure too. The choice was obvious as soon as we saw it — the Share Lite Double Dildo from Fun Factory!

Fun Factory is a German company known for its high-quality, innovative sex toys. Founded in 1996, Fun Factory focuses on creating products that combine pleasure, functionality, and design. It’s the Mercedes of sex toys.

M and I like to experiment, to challenge each other, and this was one of those cases. When the Share Lite Double Dildo arrived, the excitement was high. We thought it wouldn't fit... in either of us. The material of the toy was excellent, which didn't surprise me because I know the quality of Fun Factory toys. We read the manual, but it was clear which part went where. Excited, we opened it; we had to try it out NOW.

We got out the lubricant. I usually use BIOAQUA Natural, which I discovered was nominated for best lubricant at the XBIZ AWARDS. We applied it on both sides. I briefly considered using a thicker lubricant for anal play, but this one served our moment of urgency.

M inserted it and looked at me challengingly; I responded by moving closer to her. We thought the best position would be from behind, but we wanted to look into each other's eyes. I lay down, lifted my legs and M approached. As I have little experience with anal play, M was careful, entering slowly, and it went in. It fit, in me and in her, and we felt in a moment of shared experience our pleasure, the love of sharing our fantasies and turning them into reality.

The Share Lite Double Dildo managed to stay in place in this position; but in others, it might be more challenging. You'll just have to experiment! Of course, it didn't stay locked in the drawer; there are times when our eyes sparkle, and we go after it.

If you aren't ready for a shared anal experience we have plenty of high-quality toys you can start experimenting with today!